To Topaz concerning Luigi's advice

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Dec 23, 2008 at 13:59

If he wanted a house servant if Turkey is anything like Morocco you can hire a servant cheap from an agency and they work hard constantly without any complaints. Also in Morocco the very poor families even pretty much SELL their daughters to women and you continue paying the moms about $50 a month and this young girl lives with that family. Keep in moind too they are ones very poor possibly living in tents and have nothing and these girls may have better homes. Child labor is practiced and used.

People can have strong feelings toward someone in 3 months and this includes internet. My man and I even said the words I LOVE YOU. Until you meet in person, there is no greater love and the internet changes and everything becomes so much more REAL for the relationship. You are very young. You have your studies. I would say do not rush into moving there too quickly. Give the relationship more time than 3 months. If he truly loves you, he will wait whatever the length of time like my man is doing. Time would not stop you two. Good luck in your relationship.

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