honest, straight advice for ALR-Lugi

Submitted by Nora Wimberley (United States), Dec 24, 2008 at 09:05

Wow the compassion you had was great. And you was right in many areas. See i do agree with you often.

Ugh.....the crying. So familar. The woman I met on-line pulled the same thing after we met up a few times. Whenever she wanted something, she would start crying and threatened suicide. Honestly, do not be sentimental here. Break-ups are never really easy, and do not let him blackmail you.

This i think was not tooken in the right way. The whole crying thing came about when she tried to break up with him before she knew what his family would say. I know she try to do the break up out of fear of rejection. But her guy was very upset, becasue she feared rejection, and they did not even know what his family would say. I think he had a good reason to get emotional with her.

And we can only assume his veiw point by what she said, and you went a little crazy with that. One statement she entrusted us with and you start talking about how other men from other countries use woman for sex only. I think that was a little jumping to conclusions. But honestly that is a issue she should be made aware of. But with him being a citizen to the USA, and if he is looking for companship, eventualy he was going to find a girl that is american that would rock his world. I am sure the woman from his country are far and few between in the States. And she also mentioned he had no desire to move back to his country. So hmmm.....eventualy he would love a american woman.

Nora

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