Haters, huh?

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 26, 2008 at 10:58

Bringing in the youtube lingo on here are we?

Do not listen to those haters.

I do not see any haters on this site. All I see are women who are looking for real love who have invested much and in many cases have been stabbed in the back, so you'll have to excuse them if they are not rolling out the red carpet for Muslim men or Western men (we both know you're on here to defend to Muslim men, of course, perhaps because you have some personal stake in the matter, hm? People just do not show up here out of the blue, you know)) . But, if you are so sure, do feel free to provide evidence to me at any time.

It's really easy to accuse people of something without backing it up. Happens a lot on-line, but it also goes pretty far in discrediting what you have to say.

Lisa, you'll need a lot more than that if you want folks on here to listen to you, I think.

Yes, alot of people will tell you this. Every relationship has their ups and downs no matter what race or culture they are from. Judge this on how he treats you. See if he talks to his family about you. Arabic families do not want to hear about girlfriends unless their son is going to marry them.

That is exactly what they are counting on.

It is a respect thing. Enjoy your relationship and do not make it more complicated by listening to other people. When you guys get serious you will have a talk about religion and any other things that come up in any relationship. Be open and honest. Good luck and all the best.

Kind of hard to do when things are getting rushed for malicious purposes and just because you are open and honest does not mean a lot when your partner will be. All the more reason why he will have the advantage over you.

I think that's a common myth in dating: If I am nice and honest to that person, then they must want to treat me the same. (Side note--I realize this is what Western society in all its glorious political correctness tries to shove down our throats).

Hardly, especially when its easy to get a leg up on the other person from that.

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