Thank you Lisa USA-rightly said

Submitted by Nora Wimberley (United States), Dec 26, 2008 at 11:43

Thank you for your kind words. You was very right in what you said. You have seen me for what i am and what i stand for. When i first came on here i was attacked like fresh meat ... But that is ok, i am still here. Seeing how people post, lets you learn a lot about people. The poster Rayne does not want to respond to me anymore and that is ok. I know why, i saw through her falsies. And Farrah like's to read my post first because i ramble on. But i see her post out of fear. and sometimes off the subject. But that is all ok because they truly want to help others, and that is what matters.

I do not post about my relationship on here, I only give small details as examples for others to help them. People say if you are ok then why are you on here,posting. I post because i have to let people see there is another side. If we was to listen to all of them on here. We all would take walkes on the beach and eat vanilla ice cream (we would all do the same thing and be robots). Which is all nice, but we are all different. And these woman have had very bad experiences and should warn others. But i feel you should only spread the horror stories when it is very clear it is dangerous. We only get a glimpse of these people's lives and that is not enough to judge. Questions should be asked before coming to a final decision this is dangerous and advise the horror. But that is how i see life. I posted very little and i was told to run, I'm in a dream land. Well no i am not, and when i need help i will ask.

I do like lugi though, he has great compassion for these people, and 75% of the time he is right on. But lack of personal experiences with arabic relationships shows. And granted he is a man and would have to convert to continue a relationship. But we are mostly women and do not have to convert if we don't want too. Yes many would like us to convert if they are very religious. And yes many men use woman for sex, but that is not a arabic thing that is a world thing and see it in the states every day. They are not so different just located in a different part of the world.

But with all said all opnions are valued. But when replying i always try say it is my opnion unless i got facts to back it up and if i have sites to back it up, i will post them too. Any woman wanting to start a relationship with a man from these countries find yahoo groups of women like you. YOu can learn so much and they have been scammed too. This is only one source. And should be tooking as a source. I know a american woman that scams international men. she pays for her flight to them, and they pay for everything and leaves them loving her so much and moves on to the next man. So don't assume so much.

Everyone have a great holiday season, and happy new year

Nora

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