Moroccan Dating Scams

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 29, 2008 at 01:23

Luigi here you go again always analyzing the way you want to see things!

I just talk truth no matter how inconvienent it is.

Do you not realize that some Moroccans feel about Americans the same way you and others feel about them? Scammers lingo.

Yes, Lisa, scammers lingo!

Yes you can learn alot from someone in 10 months meeting in person and I am going back in March and he may come back with me on a toursit Visa....who knows.....but you will still sing this same tune...but it is ok for you to meet others or date from internet and it is even ok if you date an 18 year old at age of 26 but By gosh you better not have a man date a woman 9 years older or it is a scam!

Most visa scams against American women involve the exact situation you are in; it's almost a Xerox of the others on here. The age difference, yeah, that's a problem, but so is the fact that

a) You are okay with giving this man your passwords

b) You agreed to marry him before even meeting him

c) You trusted this man without even meeting him

d) You think that "true love" can happen on-line

e) Your biggest supporters on here contradict their advice and principles

f) Your lack of research, and by research, I would bet you mean "my man told me"

g) He clearly wants in on the USA.

You have double standards....Then you say you would never be attracted to a woman even at age of 30 then later come right back and post you are attracted to older women.

I said I would have reservations about being in a relationship with someone that age, Lisa, I have no issues with being attracted to someone who is older!

Stop twisting my words, or maybe you are just copying Virginia.

..but if it is to twists someone's relationship and put it through the ringer so to speak you will say whatever to get YOUR point across!!! But that is our Good Ole Luigi! Hahaha

Please refrain from using me in the possessive. I will try and make my points whether or not your hypersensitivity is damaged by them or not.

Guess what Luigi...I do not have male friends

I can't imagine why.

and furthermore why would a married woman NEED male friends?? You are only asking for trouble...

I have mixed views on that. If it is someone you know and trust, I do not see the big deal.

I do understand, though, that it is quite a long ways to Morocco and you could get quite lonely. In your case, it may be a reasonable precaution, but then again, it does help to have friends of the opposite sex.

Since you're obviously looking for younger men, keep in mind that both men and women my age, even the happily married, do have many friends of the opposite sex.

.If it is no MALE friend of my husband's He sure doesn't need to be my friend as well. Male friends can only get you in trouble. So there you go again assuming!

Sounds to me like you are the one assuming, and that sounds exactly like something a controlling boyfriend would say. I wonder if he got you to thinking that.

I guess YOU LUIGI need to do your research! Maybe ask some of those Moroccan friends you claim to have and family you invented!

No can do, Lisa, because I do not have any imaginary friends or family----they are all quite real and since they've well, LIVED in Africa, they probably know just a bit more than you or any other Westerner on here, and quite frankly, what they would have to say about this nonsense may surprise even you, Lisa.

Berbers were first to settle in Morocco but my Fiance is not BERBER and most are not Berber and ALL are not Berber so maybe you need to get your facts straight!

No one said ALL Moroccans were Berbers, so get off of your emotional high horse, Lisa.

I have been there first hand so yes guess now I do know more than YOU!

You think you a lot about Morocco by snuggling with your man and watching soccer and snooping through his computer while being there for what, 15 days did you say?

Oh, yeah, you're the expert. Just like the others who get pampered in luxury resorts and hotels whose employees are given incentive just enough to hold their tongues about how they REALLY feel about the West.

Yeah, you sure know North Africa, alright.

Why do my Fiance call himself Arabic why does he speak Arabic and not the Berber Dialect? Another thing some Moroccan's do not get along with Berbers so don't tell me all of Morocco is Berber!

What are you talking about? Moroccans do not get along with Berbers? You just said Moroccans are Berbers

Again you will say whatever to discredit me and others. I like giving it right back to you too.

See, that's the problem. The only thing I am trying to give is advice, but have at it. I can observe it pretty much it makes you feel good and reinforces this fantasy that you have about this man of yours.

You do not bother me one bit cause My relationship will be fine despite what you say or post here.

Your "relationship" does not seem fine to me at all, Lisa. If it were, you would not need to be gallivanting all over the internet talking about it.

My e-mail password is just that...I do not correspond with others and if I want to give my password to anyone that is my choice! It is not stupid!

Let me get this straight: you are admitting that it is okay to share your password with someone you've never even met? Why? Because he's charming and sends you virtual flowers….or did your man even do that?

What is he going to read but my e-mails to him and vice versa? I do not keep secrets...Anything pertaining to me I have no trouble him seeing.

Yeah, I thought the same thing with my myspace woman. Before I knew it, she was taking our car and credit card and having sex with other men. See, that is what happens when you get intimate with, share money and passwords and co-sign documents without knowing the person well enough first and without marriage!

Here's a clue: charming Moroccan boys are not exempt from this!

Desperate? I hardly think so....I had others I turned away...I even turned away a 23 year old and a 27 year old...American and from India..

Let me guess---more on-line dating. Both of those would have been troublesome, and my advice would have been the same.

Hhmmmm how would you know this Luigi unless you are one of the board moderators? Again hahaha I bet this one gets cut too...Oh well...At Least I bet you read it first.

Because if you would actually read the stipulations before posting, you know would know that.

Also, I am not one of the moderators.

I really hope that you will read other documents before signing them….like your marriage contract.

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