Response to Lisa---"You Don't know the future" excuse

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Dec 29, 2008 at 18:08

----------------------Are you ashamed of your non-Moroccan, non-North African heritage?-------------

Luigi this is way out of character and even for you! It is one thing to insult her about her opinions of relationships and her knowlege/experience about Moroccans but it really shows what a low human being you are to make such rude comments about her praising how her Moroccan dad has had a big positive influence in her upbringing. Why?

Lisa: we both know the only reason she mentioned it and the only reason you defend it is one, simple reason: the word MOROCCAN.

You are the other defenders on here have an unhealthy obsession with your man's ethnicity and culture. I've seen this before, but I have to say, in the last two months this is the biggest cultural a**-kissing I have seen to date.

Just because you do not want anyone making POSITIVE comments about ANY of these men!!

All I am doing is pointing out the facts, asking questions and trying to help people. If you want to screw up your life, fine. But I have to set the record straight even if it means not glorifying Islam or the Moroccan culture.

You want to call Lina CHILDISH? You are the one acting childish with your attacking oh but I forgot! That is CONSTRUCTIVE critizism...Did she say she was ASHAMED of her father and heritage? No she did not! She said her Morocacn dad has did more for her and you do not know her family history to make such a nasty comment.

It was not a comment, it was a question, and that is why I asked her.

True love can defeat anything.

I really laughed at this. I've also heard this before. Very cliche. Most so-called relationships and marriage talked about on this board are NOT true love. Lisa's relationship will fail, and I will bet real money, Lina, your boyfriend is not the man you will marry.

Oh so now Luigi you can see inside our hearts and you know if what we feel is TRUE LOVE? I laugh at this and more and more you make no sense trying to be right all the time.

I would think that it would be common sense to understand that you cannot have real love or real trust develop over the internet. I'm sure that married couples in Morocco and other places would balk at the idea if you tried to compare these on-line, far-fetched flings with their solid marriages.

You have no clue what we feel so don't try to speak for me or others.

I was not speaking for you. As far as what you feel, I can get pretty close to that mark by your frequency on here and your tone.

I guess only a 26 year old with a huge crush on an 18 year old knows the meaning of True-love,lol. You are not God Luigi! Don't act like you know the future!!

You've got that backwards, she was the one who was supposedly in love with me, and I was 27 at the time. But it was not real love; real love does not happen in 2 weeks.

Didn't you know, Lisa? I'm a soothsayer! lol....j/k.

No one knows the future, that's why we often talk about red flag warning signs on here.

Careful Luigi....all these women did was read the same facts you did.

Facts? You mean all those over-exaggerated emotions from your lengthy essays? Sorry, the two do not coincide.

Ever.

You want to scold them cause they see a different opinion? Your opinion is the only one that counts in life?

Just pointing out the flaws. Why is that relationship-defense posts always refer to those who do not agree with their relationships as haters, scolding, islamphobic, racist, sexist, ageist ect. ?

I have had no red flags in my relationship to date and Like Isis said I also keep looking and I analyze everything and he has nothing to hide.

Isis is right, you do need to keep analyzing; trouble is, Lisa, you're not being very open-minded about it.

If you have to go onto his computer in his house and look at his e-mails, you do not have a trusting relationship. That is to be expected, considering it all happened on-line.

So, you're telling me he has nothing to hide....because you've found nothing, right?

It does not matter what you say is going to happen. He is not like you and he is not like your MYSPACE woman or rather KID cause she was ONLY 18 and we all know how most 18 year olds are.

He is older and more mature than you and a more caring person not just to me but for all human life.

Well, you can praise him at my expense all you like.

I guess you can't imagine there are actually good people from different races than your own or mine.

Oh, yeah, that's right. That's why I've been saying all along that not all Moroccans are bad.

That's the thing, Lisa, you are so hung up on appearence here it is not even funny.

As far as comment they don't care about me....They hear my story....they go by what is posted here not what "MIGHT HAPPEN" If we live our lifes with "WHAT MIGHT HAPPENS" we would never trust anything or love anything or anyone...

Trouble is, once you get had by these men, you probably won't have the same attitude. Neither would Isis, Lina and Nora ect.

.I do not believe they should love me...they do not know me...how can they love me? They do not see me or know my life,but I can tell they care about life and people and are at least fair to others.

Translation: they must care because they agree with me. So, Lisa, if you wanted to jump off of a bridge, and people supported you, would they care?

A much better person than yourself Luigi.

Thanks.

They are not ATTACKIng people the way you are.

Oh, believe me, if you want to see real on-line attacking, I can point you to a few places. What happens on here is not attacking.

Luigi your post hear reaks of anger and being defensive as well but its ok if you are defensive and posts long posts....cause we all know a 27 year old male is smarter than someone younger or older than himself...

Age has little to do with intelligence. Just check out some of the profs and admins at our universities.

.Do you feel good about yourself to always refer to Lina's age on here?

I only refer to Lina's age to assess your double-standard. You tell I am inexperienced because of it, yet now you are rushing to defend her.

So you are more superior and smarter and wiser cause you are older than Lina?

I would never use the word superior when comparing myself to another person. Ever.

Lina does quite well for her age and yeah, she is smarter about dating than I was at that age.

Then if so, you should also listen to yourself and realize women like myself on here who you keep posting 42....must be wiser and smarter than yourself if this holds true....again, only you Luigi have all the answers!

It's not about who is wrong and right! If I am wrong I'll admit it. If you want this "i'm right you're wrong nonsense" go to facebook, Lisa. There's plenty of teenagers sitting in their mommy's basements just dying to out-debate you.

Luigi You do not know me....I work 12 hrs a day rotating shifts...one week of days and one week of nights. Then I have a second job (hobby) of being a photographer in any spare time and go ahead and throw in me raising three kids of age 12, 14, 23 who all live at home without help from the dad or child support! ..I work 68 hrs a week! Im not just some old 42 year old that sits at the computer talking to my man or reading/posting to your lunitic rantings...Im a good person...Im a classy person...I have morals and Im not some slob who can't find a man looking for some foreignor

You have morals, huh? Before you sure seemed to be talking about you could "please" me and how your drove your man wild.

like you like to imply sometimes or THINK! On top of all that, throw in I also go to a 24/7 gym where I workout, tan ,and sit in a heat room. Then at end of day I have a lengthy, webcam chat with someone I love who happens to be a foreignor you do not like...

Well, I most certainly do not hate him, but I do not think what you two have is real love.

Oh well that is life! So Luigi Do not judge ME or OTHERS when you do not know us....Besides you are on here as much as we are!

Again, I'm not judging. You're just playing against the odds, and I've already stated that I do not think this will work out. There are too many red flags here.

I have no idea if we spend the same amount of time on here or not, Lisa. All I know is you do a lot for, especially for someone who is busy and has a man to talk to on-line. I still think you'll be spending more time talking to me than him.

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