Kate K i agree with Hisham

Submitted by Nora Wimberley (United States), Dec 30, 2008 at 09:54

In your post you did sy some things that was insulting. No matter how good off or bad off there country is, they love and respect there country and know life no different. I am sure with your words you have used with him he has put on the brakes to even consider living in your country. Because what if other people treat him as you have treated him and you love him. Comprimise is important even in a on-line relationship. And you can not take back your words, but you can move forward, and rethink this and talk to him openly why he will not consider it. And figure out why you will not consider it. Kids make things harder, i know this my self. I would love to move my kids to Morocco even though life is very different. But my kids have friends and a culture they are use too. And to go there means learning 2 launages just for school. I could put them in private american schools but that means my guy has to move to a big city and maybe find a job and maybe not. We decussed this several times and it is just easier for him to come here to us. With a online relationship you need to know what you will consider doing and not consider doing and what is questionable. You can make this work still!!!

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