wow sharra

Submitted by Abby (United States), Dec 31, 2008 at 20:09

Sharra,

wow.. you're a bit harsh there... thats a good list, but have you really had all of those questions posed to you by your guy? i'm still with my guy, its been 1 1/2 years, and i haven't heard one of those questions asked to me.
i think that maybe some of them are scammers and some of them are not. and i do think by this time so many of us have read this blog so many times that we can kind of figure it out by now , who is doing what to who, right?

i truly feel bad for anyone who has lost at this game going on with scammers. its very sad. but we can't let ourselves get bitter.
just recently, i got so involved with someone from this site and her problmes with her moroccan man. she was over her head with grief, and loss, and trying to get back with her guy, and calling him and searching for anyone who knows him, tyring to get information at any cost, that i almost ruined my relationship out of her paranioa that was rubbing off on me. she had me looking for a devil behind every bush with my guy. he finally told me, hey, i don't want to live in this other womans world, because every day i was brow beating him with questions trying to see if he had any intentions to scam me down the road way. or i was asking him if he knew this guy of hers, and so on....wow.

i had to end communication with her because she was bringing me down into her depression. i was becoming hostile and angry just like she is. then she turned on me and began blaming me for things going on.. it was a mess! i feel bad for her, but i had to just break it off.
we need to be careful on this site not to get too carried away. remember, men from america can be exactly the same way as you are describing most of these men. my ex husband was exactly like this.. only he was already a citizen. wow. it was a nightmare.. in fact, he could teach a few of these muslim men a thing or two.

but its a new year now, so lets just look back and work with what we have now. time does tell all. I hope and pray that love will rule your lives. keep praying. God will show you the answers and so will your heart.
peace for the new year
abby

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