reply to shadae

Submitted by LISABETH (United States), Jan 1, 2009 at 19:44

I can understand what you are saying and I can see your point. But, I am only 6 years older than him and I look younger than him if not the same age. When I was there his family nor friends asked me my age. I know I met some very sincere and loving people and I met and spent time with a man who was loving and respectful and who proved that everything he told me about his life online was truth. They opened their home to me and I felt very welcome.

I knew him for almost a year before I even went over there to meet him. He has not even asked me about a visa to come here and we have not decided where we will live after we get married. But, my my convenience I would like to live herre in the USA but, that will come with time and there is no pressure there because he is not pushing me on this issue. We both want to continue like things are and see where it will go. So if this is too good to be true it is my problem.

BTW I am curious what is your background and expertise on this subject to say it is too good to be true and this is for a visa? Thanks for your response!

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