after a year of marriage, I still haven't met ANY of my husband's friends

Submitted by FARRAH (United States), Jan 1, 2009 at 20:56

I just read an article about "red flags" for victims of Immigration Fraud Marriages. The first line says" DO NOT IGNORE THE WARNING SIGNS which is what I think we all do...

anyway, one for me , and it's hard for me to admit is that I have NEVER met any of the countless "friends" he talks to on the phone. No co-workers etc...but the kicker is we are about to move to a new apartment. He will not allow me to ask anyone to help move the furniture, nor is he asking his coworker that he helped to move into his new home 3wks ago!! This bothers me greatly...not quite sure how to handle this. Just let it go, and move the items myself, or push the issue??

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