For Farrah

Submitted by Zella (United States), Jan 4, 2009 at 19:30

How long is it going to take you to understand that your husband is treating you in a manner that is "normal" to him? Why would you even consider moving the furniture and why would you think that your husband is going to introduce you to his friends? Your husband will never treat you with dignity and respect unless you place demands on him. Why should he? People do not change unless they have a reason to change and it is apparent that you have not given your husband the swift kick in the butt that will either motivate him to change or leave.

Why are you so afraid to confront him? I feel so sad for many of the women who post on this blog but as someone who has spent many years in the counseling profession, I have come to accept that unfortunately many of Gods' children will continue to suffer because they will not stand up and say,"I don't deserve this and I'm not going to allow another human being to abuse me."

I wish you the very best but please remember that God helps those who help themselves. Isn't it time for Farrah to start helping Farrah?

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