Yes these posts are scary

Submitted by Nora Wimberley (United States), Jan 6, 2009 at 08:17

Carmel, you really have to look within your self for the answers to if he is a scammer. In my opinion i think it kinda fast to start to send in money and paper work for a tourist visa. It is only 3 months.

There is a phase in a relationship called the honeymoon phase. And basicly what that is you are just getting to know them and it's fun and romantic, exciting and bacisly OMG forfills all the other gaps. But a couple of months later it becomes work with the relationship. Because once you get the questions out of the way and start to feel really comfortable. And the excitement starts to lose ground and like i said you have to work to maintain the relationship.

These men are charming and OMG so good looking. I have been to Morocco and met my guy.
And while there, since we walked everywhere, i got to see a lot of the moroccans and i hate to say this, but i really did not see a ugly moroccan man. And there is the charm of the country.You really have not said enough to debate if he is scamming you or not. Just because he can say words that romance your heart does not make him a bad person at all. These men watch movies and learn how to suave a girl that way. I think some of the things i have heard where kinda corny to be honest.

The best advice i can give you, from what i know is not to rush it. We have a life time to find mr.right. And yes moroccans and many muslim men do not wait, because in there culture it is exceptable to find love and marry quickly. But when it comes to online dating that does tend to change a little. I advice to take it slow, because ofter the honey moon phase you start to learn what the real person is.

Many women on here will try to scare and make you believe every muslim man is evil. And F.Y.I. They are not all evil and out scamming. But you do have to learn to read between the lines. If you ask a personal question does he refuse to answer it or beat around the bush. Have you asked him why he is not religious any more. Because i do not care if they are pacticing or not ,religion is there culture, in some way it effects them. As you are catholic, and i am too. A lot of time we become busy in life but when lent comes upon us we all of a sudden start to practice those 40 days and celebrate Easter. Well muslims become very religious for RAMADAN if not any other time of the year. Believe me religion does effect him in some way. Have you asked him if you do have children how they will be raised. I mean CAtholic and Muslim are strong in there beliefs. And most muslim men will say children will be raised by the fathers religion like it is practiced in there country. Really you need to read and read and read some more. ... different then you, you should learn the basic beliefs system to just understand and make a good decsion in your own life. I hope this helps you and don't let these post scare you. If we all listen to them we would eat vanilla ice cream and live in houses with picket fences (like robots). We are all different and must experience life. But Luigi is a good one to listen to, because he can get you thinking about real things beyond the horror stories. Alothough he always uses age and culture as a crutch.

Nora

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