Nora

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Jan 7, 2009 at 22:22

You know, it really is a concern if you do not want to talk about your relationship out of fear of "getting attacked". No one on here attacks anyone else.

I would strongly advise you to go by the logical advice given on this site, since you are already on here a lot anyways.

Nora, I do not like the sound of your relationship about getting him a visa. This is not a good sign---at all.

I would advise you to not get to wrapped up in those posters who defend their relationships. I've seen that behaviour on other blogs before and it means trouble pure, plain and simple. People who have to take out their anger and bitterness on-line often have issues with someone else in their lives, usually a signifcant other or close relative or best friend. Be warned, Nora, that the angle that these posters use much of the time is to satisfy their own doubts--and if that comes at your expense, so be it.

As a matter of default, I usually give the benefit of the doubt, but truth be told there could be imposters on this site posing as women as well. You have to be careful, Nora, and read what makes most sense to you and follow ALL of your feminine instincts.

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