LADIES PLEASE BE WARNED

Submitted by Abby (United States), Jan 16, 2009 at 09:34

To all here on this website.

I wanted once again, to warn you all that even though we are going through difficult times with the men we chose to be with or love or run from or whatever, keep it here to this site. I've learned my lesson the hard way!!

Whatever you do, do not contact personally, the women on here because I did this as i had stated before on this stie, and i am STILL getting hate email from other women who i don't even know very well only because I quit being involved with this person and her problems, who was on this site!.

i am getting accused of NOT being a good friend and i am being told that i should be ashamed of myself because I am a christain and i should not be so mean as to stop being her friend and that I should stay with her to the end!!!!!!!!!! Yes, its is true that i was actually told this. I am being blamed now, by yet ANOTHER person!!! Where will it end now?
And I was told SHAME ON ME for coming to this site to tell everyone to be careful of getting too involved with others who are in trouble on this site!!

I had contacted this woman personally because I had a relationship with a muslim man too, and I tried to help her, and became friends with her for almost one year and but it blew up in my face! and it still is and I have not even talked with this woman for a long time. ( I won't go into detail again of what happened )
I am NOT saying any names because that would be hurtful and cruel and wrong to say names and this is NOT why i am writing on this site about the matter. NO one knows this person who I am talking about because there are many many women on this site, so don't be trying to guess who I am talking about!!

And NO one here knows me or my friends personally at all! But the point is that i still was blasted by someone for warning other women on this site about not getting too involved.
It's sad that there is so much hate in this world. This site started out to be helpful to those women who got involved with wrong muslim men. And it has helped many, but now the women who were victims are now attacking each other!! It's over-lapping and women are hurting the women who are trying to gain their lives back.! Please, let's stop this craziness! No one knows what someone else is going through. We can not be heros so just lets not try!

So please, just let's all stay to the matter of helping one another on this site, (unless you are sure of what you are doing), for your own sanity and peace.
thanks for reading
Abby

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