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Submitted by leesa (United States), Jan 17, 2009 at 01:46

I know how you feel. I was online for a year and a half with someone that I thought I was planning a life with. The warning signs were there, the red flags were there, but my heart chose to ignore them. I broke it off a month ago, but he is still on my messenger, I haven't deleted him, although I know I have to. He didn't care about me, all I was to him was a paycheck. I thought we were planning and saving for our future. Stupid me....It's so hard to come to terms with the fact that we spent so much time together and for so long, and all that time everything he said was a lie. Meaningless words.......He had no feelings for me and I realize that now.

I will probably never know why he does what he does, if he's poor, has a family to take care of, or if it's pure greed.....I feel sorry for all the women that have crossed/will cross his path because I'm sure many of them will or have already been in the same situation........

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