Luigi concerning remarks to Susan USA

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Jan 18, 2009 at 20:53

Luigi I am not asking you to support me and my relationship, I don't care if anyone on here supports it or what you or anyone thinks. that is where you are wrong to believe I do. As far as my Long essays on here it has been in reference to your posts ... furthermore i spent almost a year talking to this man and what you forgot to say is we talked of marriage...and he also didn't ask me first...and also it was our options. That is what dating is all about luigi not about flings. We left it open for discussion when we did meet in person and if we have the same connection with one another in person. He had doubts too just like I did and we both wanted to be careful....its not always about just US. They have some concerns too with all rumours they hear about us in USA and how we live......our discussion of marriage is our choice. Some people may decide to marry in as little as 3 months and know they will make a good couple, its their choice not yours and my decision.....so ....it was an open discussion Luigi that most all discuss when a relationship is serious. I saw him on cam so its not like i had no clue of who i was going to be meeting. I don't care that you believe it was wrong...we were entitled to this discussion. It's both our futures.....as far as my posting here.....i have that right as much as you do and I can promise you I have no problems with my man or my relationship or any issues....I came along this board when I first started talking to Simo and even he will tell you to love with eyes wide open.

We are both very happy and i posted to show some people of what was posted here was falsely written..... im lucky that Simo is a good person and good hearted and he always care of my input and my opinions of matters and usually always leave it to my final decision and what I feel is best for us....He is easy to get along with and very affectionate and caring and he appreciates our relationship and what I do for our relationship.

As far as my working long hrs Luigi, I sit at home when I am not working. Its my choice what i do with my free time.....and if I want to post to this board i am allowed without your permission to do so....just cause I work long hrs and have a long distance relationship does not mean I do not have time for this board or indicate that something is wrong in my relationship,lol. I do get some free time.

His country is 6 hrs ahead of mine. We don't sit all day in a chair and try and keep tabs on one another. He has a life too and so do i...and Im posting this as he is sleeping since its 8pm here in Alabama and 2am there. Most the time when I post, his day has ended so when you accuse these women and myself of having problems cause we are here defending posts like this one you make or insult others on having an opinion does not mean anything is wrong although you would like to believe it is.....have a nice weekend luigi I am headed to work.

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