The straight up truth: Attention Ladies!

Submitted by SweetKitten (United States), Jan 19, 2009 at 01:23

Okay ladies,

hard truth but you need to hear it, I won't apologize for my being harsh.

please do yourself a favor, in these "relationships" are you really seeking love, or are you in search of wisdom, and subconsiously these bad things or good things going bad are the smack of reality you need sometimes two or more times before we wise up.

an example.

foreign guy:hey baby you are cute I like your photo on your page give me your IM address so we can chat

you: hmm thanks hehe you are attractive too

some chat later: you: here is my IM address

him: okay

(insert amount of time till next chat session here) you: oh I see you online now hello

foreign guy: my beautiful, I have sincerely missed you with all my heart and soul I cannot wait for you to be my wife

you: (insert flattered emotion here)

him: so what do you do? what is your job?

you: I work in the immigration department

him (option A): haha

you:

no really I do.

him (after or instead of option A) insert his screenname here: has signed offline. thinking please oh please allah let me find an insecure dumb chic next time please. (repeated smacks in the head from his family or ahem live in fiance)

you: congratulate yourself, you've smacked your reality on him before he could ruin your life with a dose of his reality. pat yourself on the back you much wiser woman now, you!

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