be careful

Submitted by cheri (United Kingdom), Jan 20, 2009 at 04:01

my advice is to block the emails and screen your calls. Yes you are lonely, but you are safe- do not let your heart rule your head unless you really do ant to marry the guy to help hm.

Let me tell you- If you read the excerpt from the kORAN which is true about Lttle White Lies- you should understand it is acceptable to deceive a woman before marriage- sometimes the whole family are backing up the man to enter marriage for financial reasons- a- the woman pays for mariage, b- the man henerally wants ot build above the family home and needs financial help from a foreigner becausepoverty is normal way of life.

I have spent 8 months in a long distance relationship with a moroccan muslim- he does not pray but he is a good person and his family seem sincere but when i visit i get the feeling all they want is mariage for money to help the sick parents, its hard to know wat is real.
f you are a Chrsitian and you decide to marry a muslim my advice is to get a witness who is catholic and to insist on a mixed marriage which means keeping your name- but you will have your phone inspected for calls and your money taken away How can you trust love in those circumstances- better to tell hmi to get a job, to hep him be able to save his own money, pay for his own visa, otherwise you are building a foundation of co-dependency.

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