can anyone help please.

Submitted by green (United Kingdom), Jan 20, 2009 at 17:22

hi,last year i went to spain on holiday with my family and my 2 children,i met a waiter, and even though we did'nt talk to each other there was an obvoius attraction. when i left i was heartbroken (silly! i know) ,so i sent him a letter to the holiday complex giving him my e-mail. he replied and so we have been in contact since.

he is morraccan,same age as me(29) and a muslim.He has told me his parents are teachers of language and he speaks 4 languages,he has never mentioned money.he seems so geniune! But i can't help wondering?

sometimes he just goes offline while we are talking? and i have seen many photos of him and his siblings and parents.He has told me that he lives with his sister and he sends photos, and being a paranoid women i have looked at these pictures and noticed his sister, who is(18) wearing a ring on her marriage finger? so maybe she is not his sister?

he has told me that he has told his parents and that they told him its his life. he tells me that he would like to marry me! but when i ask him about seeing each other he always replys that i should'nt worry,and that i will happen eventually!

he constantly asks how my parents will react( they know him from previous holidays), and we have discussed religion, he told me about allah and i told him about my beliefs in the goddess! he laughs and says our gods have brought us together,and i have told him i will not convert,which he accepted. he says he wants to be with me but we would have to marry,otherwise we cant sleep together.

so please,can anyone help?

he is either too good to be true or a horrible little man?

ps,while on holiday i spied on him through my sunglasses and he didn't look at the other women !

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