GOOD JOB ISALOVER

Submitted by Sharra (United States), Jan 20, 2009 at 19:30

well, actually, if you read your own post back, you'll see the way it really is. of course you are lonely without him, its natural. why wouldn't you be? you lived with him and slept with him.

you know, its sad that many women lose the meaning of "i love you".. why do we think they love us when they are doing EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE.... if one of these men had a gun to your head to pull the trigger and said to you, im sorry darling, i have to kill you, but dont worry, I REALLY LOVE YOU AND DONT WANT TO LOSE YOU! would you look into his eyes and say, okay darling, pull the trigger, i believe you! thats as much sense as all of this makes.

i know a woman who had a muslim guy in morocco, used her, took her money, dumped her, and the only time she heard from him is when he wanted more money and wanted lots of it,. and then he would say, I LOVE YOU AND CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU!! ALL I DID WAS THINK OF YOU WHEN WE WERE NOT TALKING! and guess what? she gave it to him every time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then he would dump her as soon as she sent it to him, then she'd not hear from him again, and over and over and over! it was pure madness! did she get the hint? NOPE. and i dont know if she's still doing that with him or not, but its the truth. just because these devils say I LOVE YOU why should that make us do what they want? its insanity.

they make us feel like we are useless and not worthy. then they say I LOVE YOU. what a psychololgy!
you'll get tired of it in time, and when you have no emotion left, you'll quit him. but if he quits you, you wont have a choice but to go on. the men who do this to women, are total snakes. cold as ice, sex driven, lie driven, money driven....just plain crazy.

another women i knew, couldn't handle the fact that her young muslim guy cheated on her ( she is older much older) so she went the route, "i dont care if you do, i dont love you anyway, so sleep with who you want to, but sleep with me too and i'll still give you money" ......oh brother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i am not joking what i say about these women i knew. so you see, there are enablers of all kinds for these men.
its a rat race..
hope you can pull out of this with your heart still intact.
hope the best for you
sharra

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