TO GREEN about spain

Submitted by Abby (United States), Jan 21, 2009 at 10:41

well, green, let me say to you, that if he is moroccan, how is it that he is working in spain? you can not do that if you live in marco, you can not work in another country beause you can not get out of marco without a visa to spain. he must live in spain. and if he does live there, then there has to be a reason. you know, its almost impossible to get a visa out of morocco to go anywhere unless its a student visa, fiance visa, or unless he is made of money.

lives with his sister? you didn't say if he lives in spain or if he lives in morocco. that would make all the difference, really. where does his parents live? a lot depends on all of that info.

i was told that wedding rings are NOT the tradition for muslim marriages at all. in fact i have heard this from my own muslim b/f and others who say it is not tradition for them like it is for all of us. probably because the symbol of a ring is for eternal love and many muslim men don't believe in staying faithful to one woman. (not all, just some) but if his sister is wearing a wedding ring, she may be married to someone whose tradition is to wear a wedding ring, or maybe its NOT a wedding ring. you know many moroccan men will take a wedding ring from the women who they are with if this is their (the womans) tradition.

green, just go and read all of these posts and you will figure it out for yourself. and even is he is sincere at this point, remember you contatcted him first, so he just might be taking the opportunity to just have a fling.

and you know, they all speak 4 languages. arabic, berber, french, english, and sometimes spanish.

but really, most of these men who we are talking about here on this site, are NOT married, they are just in the cheating and money scam business. i say MOST.. some of them are not doing this, but ....thats not what this site is all about.

you are both 29.....thats new. lol.. i mean, both the same age you have an advantage.
it might just be a fling for him and you, right now.. you say he wont have sex unless you are married.. well, thats blah blah blah.... he's muslim (they will tell you its forbidden to have sex before marriage if they are a true muslim)
and you believe in ....... what??????? the goddness? i'm NOT even going to ask what that is!!!!!!!!!!!!!! anyway.. it really doesnt matter at this point with both equations. what matters is, where is it going to go.. if you just began this relationship, see where it leads. only you can make that choice right now. it doesnt sound like a scam. it just sounds routine at this point.

if he had chatted you up first, or asked for your name or contact info first, then worry, but you went after him, so see where it goes..

you said that you spied on him and he didnt look at other women? and that means..........................?

let us know what happens, if you want.
hope it works out for you if this is what you really want. but the muslim thing? it is a way of life and thats the bottom line. its a hard bridge to cross or blow up.

abby

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