beware

Submitted by cheri (United Kingdom), Jan 21, 2009 at 12:03

Ladies, i have a question- if you live in Uk or Europe and you met a man- young, handsome calls you Habibi, wife after meeting you for 2 days- get engaged and then pressure for visa - and you were in your hometown what would you think?? wow, he's a fast mover? I should be careful, what is he after? he must really love me because he doesn't want to live without me- and he has 9 people sat in his house all expecting a gift each time you visit- you would run a mile- wouldnt you?
God helps those that help themselves.

Do not been taken in by the charm and good looks- we all have big hearts, we all adore being part of a family unit especially if we are single parents and feel trapped, it's a good way to escape the day to day exsistence but let me tell you something.,

1- I know a woman late 50's married a Morrocan man and now he has abandoned her- she gave him and his family so much material things- money in his bank, holidays, but he has dissapeared- no closure, no explanation, nothing, No answering her calls, just gone.

2- another woman in a relationship for 1 year with a moroccan man she discovers he was with another woman the whole time for 1 year and denied it until she got the truth out of him

3- You can make friends with a Moroccan man and you can guarantee that if you are female he will woo you and use all the right words to suck you in- the family are generally pushing him into marriage with muslim but if he has fancy ideas abiout being european he will hold out until he gets the right woman- but he is allowed other relationships in your absence- he will never tell you this.

4- A wealthy English woman married a handsome moroccan from marrakech- he came to live in UK- until one day whilst she was at work he fleeced the bank account and returned to Morocco to stay with his family because he felt like an accesory- he missed his tribe and that was the main reason for the marriage to obtain money for the family back home.

5- My Moroccan paid for his own tourist visa - it was refused because he did not listen to me- now he is bitter, he tells me English donlt like spending money- alarm bells, they slip up eventually and instead of rescuing these men why not focus on giving the money to your own children who feel left out and are scared because they may not see you again when you go off to meet these men.
6- Always give your moroccan friends telpehone nad address to someone before you leave for Morocco
always make them aware that you are not a sugar momma- mine asked me if i would help him with money for living when he left his job for a holiday with me- I said no.

They do not ever respect a woman who gives them money- they may ask but it is up to you to tell them to earn it by getting a job.,
I suspect my man was fired and that is why he does not have work - it ios difficult to find work if you have ben fired so you become the main point of focus for escape.

I was told he would give me his wages if he could stay here and work, I don;t believe it for 1 minute, The family are all smiles to your face but i donlt trust that it is genuine,.

we live and learn. Stay away from Internet dating overseas, try and be strong, I met my man on holiday there and stayed 8 months in the relationship- I stay in Hotel now and see him when i choose too- of course i then get him witholding love as punishment, it's their way, they are neanderthal- American men are not like this.

surely you deserve a loving , honest relationship, instead of being driven insane wondering who else he is talking to on Msn? They are chancers, ponces, do yourself a favour and get out.

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