In Response to Angie

Submitted by LISA USA (United States), Jan 22, 2009 at 08:37

Angie....I will tell you like luigi.....He is not telling me ANY STORY at all. He does not compare himself to others or make excuses for anyone. He holds himself accountable for himself. He has to liove with his own actions but so do I.....He does not smooth talk me or try to convince me so you can believe what you want to believe about someone you do not even know or have been around or talked too....He has never fed me crap what I read here or what you implied. and yes I am 9 years older but so was his last Moroccan woman who was 6 years older. 9 Years is not much compared to the 20-30 years age spread of most of these women posting here. I don't try to hide behind an annonymous blog Angie...I have posted my Myspace address on here a few times to put faces with my posts of both Simo and myself and our family.

To get something straight Angie, I have no doubts about my Fiance so I do not appreciate you thinking you know me,lol and saying i do...... He doesn't play games and does not know i even stumbled across this board several months ago. I searched like many others (Moroccan men) and found this blog when trying to find out more about his culture. With this said just like Nora on here who posts i did not like to see all Muslim men and Moroccan men all lumped into the same category....I know when I started reading this blog i appreciated reading the informational things you can pick up from this blog...and some was helpful for when I traveled to Morocco....and he was not telling me the story of the Moroccan and french lady to smooth talk me...see people like you and luigi like to read and put your own scenerios without knowing the context of how things came about in conversations...well let me share why i was told this story so you will know he did not have an agenda. even though I should not have to explain anything to you and really you shouldn't even be posting anything negative about him cause you do not know him at all....you are like the others and want to accuse all these men of the same storyes of conning women......

a lady friend was telling me her fiance wanted to buy a business in Morocco and he told her women's names could not be on the deeds/papers and I told her I can ask Simo and see if it is truth or lie and Simo knows this couple I was asking about and he told me this story for me to tell her to help her to "love with eyes wide open" and to know he lied to her for whatever reasons. See Angie you took something I said and made it into what you wanted to hear. I have just as much trust in this man as he does me which is a lot.....He has not tried to hide anything from me......i have been in his bedroom on his personal computer and in his files (out of curiousity and I let him know when he walked in that i had looked and I had read all his e-mails and i have seen his messenger list of 5 people and i know who they are (yes one is girl that was a frnd he hasn't talked to in about 13 months and heard she may have married) but with this said, he did not have to tell me anything about her but he did..

.He could have said it was all male friends... and I have held his cell phone....He is home early hrs of the night. He doesn't drink or smoke I have been in this relationship now for one year....we have not had the first argument over anything...he has never lost his temper or stormed off line or even raised his voice at me...now he may have nudged me to walk and show what i was wearing for the day but that is the extent of it. Nor have I not made him upset just jealous once when we talked about a gym/fitness instructor and i showed him pictures of this trainer and I told him I had a past crush on this policeman/trainer and I did not know even with this he would be jealous and I would hurt his feelings and he just asked me to never tell him anything like this again. So I would hardly call this an argument...and i can be a little jealous as well but its natural to feel this way. We are human.

Angie, I am not trying to be ugly. I just dislike posters who assume they know him better than me when they do not know his intentions.....I also know women can be jealous of others and sometimes I wonder if this resentment toward me and my posting is related to women do not want to see others happy or ina good relationship just because theirs failed and they were conned. I am not saying this is the case but you have to admit there are some here who would LOVE to see my relationship fail..... I do feel for the ones hurt and I wish to see them let all the bitterness and anger released or they will never trust or love again....The world can be lonely without love.

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