to Jennifer- I agree with Luigi

Submitted by cheri (United Kingdom), Jan 24, 2009 at 03:45

Dear Jennifer, please take your time with this person. Your children need to you to focused on them- they need you- I sugest you tell him that you are in financial difficulties and cannot commit to a visit.
The paperwork is expensive, flights are expensive and if they take care of you it can sound relatively inexpensive but you will pay in emotional turmoil and that is no good for your kids.

I have seen women with mooccan men who are paying for everything in Morocco - In my eyes that makes the men Gigolos- In any country- worlwide- it means the same thing, they have old fashioned ways set in stone and i dont like the sound of him smoking/drinking?? I do neither nor doesmy fiancee- and the cousin?? I suspect she is wife. Familys stick together but 35 year old cousin living with family is a new one to me- Sister in law, yes, children cousins yes, brothers, sisters, yes.

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