To Sonja and others...

Submitted by AnonymousXXXXXX (United States), Jan 25, 2009 at 19:59

First of all, one word: prenup...especially if you own assets, etc. I don't give a crap if they like it or not, I refuse to lose everything to a leech. Speaking of which, that sounds like this African guy. From what you said, you would gain nothing, he would gain a meal ticket. Yes, he's a lazy SOB looking for a free ride.

Ladies, if you go into amarriagewith ANYONE, go in with eyes wide open, protect your assets, and if it ends, you will survive. God will do the judging in the end. Good luck to all!!!

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