Beware of Mohamed M from Egypt (Mansoura) (Paris)

Submitted by sad uk lady (United Kingdom), Jan 26, 2009 at 05:33

Hi all

I've never posted before but been lurking around for about a year but wanted to share my story....

If you come across this man then please be aware he his a liar and a cheat. He used a woman for visa to get into France and he has married his cousin as well. He will break your heart stay away............

He broke mine and played with it for two years, yes not all Egyptian men are the same so I won't generalise, but let me tell you there are many out there and you have to dig deep to find a good one.

For me it was like a drug I just couldn't say no even when he was in France and told me he'd paid someone to marry him for a visa... how sad is that!! All my friends and family tried to tell me to leave it but I couldn't say no. It took me 6 months to pull away were I felt strong enough to leave him I'm ashamed of myself for allowing someone else to control me so much he knew what strings to pull.

The situation around his cousin I always knew about but he told me it was his choice, blood is stronger I know now, so don't get involved if you hear this its a huge red flag. He his now back in France and seeing another woman and she called me and said leave my husband alone I told we had been together two years and he had told her I was a friend of his brothers and really liked him how sad is that.. she met him a few months ago I think he knew I was going to end it so he wanted the next one lined up.

We've had some conversations and I think she now realise what he's like but she's hooked like I was my heart goes out to her she seems a nice woman and when I explained we couldn't be angry with each other, so I hope she challenges his ass cos he his already married to his cousin and getting a divorce from the woman who he paid. You see I now realise he didn't pay her it was a chance for him to get out of egypt and make a good life, because his brother wife told me she had a baby so more lies...

Well the crunch came last year when a close friend gave me some home truths and ask me why I didn't feel I deserved to be happy and why I was putting up with this situation I wouldn't from a man in the UK so why was he different and he wasn't.. this really stuck in my mind and khalas he's gone.

He 's done the crying and called many times but I've deleted everything and changed all my numbers so come on ladies you need to do this......

so many thanks Straight_Talk_Luigi I took all your advice and if you were here I give you a big hug my friend....

I now feel relieved and positive going into 2009 I've met a new man and so far all is good I will not be a door mat again.

But I wish you all good luck and happiness ladies just be strong you didn't need this man before you met him and you don't need him now.

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