To Isis and others...Lisa not gettin it!

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Jan 27, 2009 at 19:15

Isis thank you once again....You are right I do get it. and don't worry I would not let words here in a blog determine my life or destroy my relationship/marriage. I know what I have is genuine....Actions speak louder than words. Its easy for others heart broken to say Look Lisa this happened to us and it could be you too but the difference is for one thing, their relationships did not work out cause their man had bad intensions from the beginning. They can sit here and type all they want too and judge easily by their own experience but thing is they are not where I am sitting now. I can honestly say he is genuine and wants to be happy and we talk openly and honestly....Im not Naive or stupid and I really hate women telling me I should wake up..

>im fully awake in this relationship Isis...I do not have my eyes closed. I do not have to have a man in my life. I have always been my own bread winner and Im raising my own family without a male parent....Im not one to cross or walk all over I can tell you this quiet honestly and he knows this is my character. He also knows I am a very caring and lovable person just like he is. This man is having to trust that i am an honest one too and that I have good intentions by him...The roles can easily be reversed here and he has to have faith and trust in me too. These women can sit and speculate all they want but they don't sit on my receiving end to know what our talks are about...Its not conning or asking or even talking about plans financially....Its every day life talk...sincere talks and they don't look into his eyes...they don't see him hurt or cry for being a part...they don't see both our pain already...they don't see how we are when we are together both in private and on cam...they don't see us laughing....the difference is he is honest and not acting. He does not have it in his character and i fully support and trust him 100% ..Isis we are happy...very happy....and the question was imposed what if something happened and we were not allowed to be together in USa and he said I am his wife....we will be together regardless cause we love one another, but I am sure one will say hers told her the same,lol.....Isis, Im loving with Eyes wide open and I love what I see. I have seen how he treats even the pooriest of people from his hometown...He is respectful and honest....and we are both sincere. They can post whatever they feel here....Its not their life to live or judge....Thanks again Isis..don't worry. No One will bully me out of loving this caring man...He is my life now and i am his. If it ends in 5 years...so be it...if 5 years is all I have with this man, I will be greatful for this time without gripes or regrets and you know Isis and all here who is reading this...Do you really know that you even have TOMORROW???? No we do not and do we know I WILL DIE before him? No we do not...Do we know he will live to take a VIRGIN? No we do not...Get my point?? Live your lives for yourself and use your own wise decisions based on your own events/life/partner.

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