To Isis

Submitted by Leigh (United States), Jan 30, 2009 at 22:02

"You don't even know someone completely when you are with them 24/7."

Exactly that is what I am trying to tell you. Meeting online is ok, but to actually think you can continue a relationship online to the point of thinking you are in love and ready to marry without even meeting each other is redicules. I am not for online dating. You are always asking these ladies did they meet their muslim man online or face to face, like it makes much different when you say you only see "yours man" 3 or 4 times out of the year. Honey a man who is thousands of miles away does not have a lady, if you know what I mean.

I know the concept of a whore honey more than you know. It is the prostitutes who get paid for it. A whore is someone who sleeps around. I also was not calling any of these ladies a whore on this site, I was insinuating the reason arab men think of us as whores because we are so quick to jump in the hay with them, and then we expect them to respect us. Their culture is different, we know this about them and we do it anyway.

Love has nothing to do with it, it is lust and nothing can come from lust but pain and heart aches. Women from their culture will not sleep with them the way western women do; that is why they always go back to their women. I have asked several arab/muslim men why do they prefer virgins and most of them replied, because they feel the woman is really their woman, no other man has touched her in that way. Do you think they feel that way about us when most of us are older, divorced or not virgins, NO THEY DO NOT.

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