For SBHW

Submitted by Zella (United States), Jan 31, 2009 at 19:22

I am amazed that you married this man when you witnessed the antisocial behavior in the family home. If a woman wants to know how a man will treat her, she should observe how he treats his mother and sisters. A leopard does not change its' spots, the spots just get larger.

Trust me, your husbands' family will take his side regardless of what he does to you. Your husband will do everything he possibly can to take your money as well as destroy your spirit. His goal and the goal of his family is for him to take enough money back to Morocco to marry a Moroccan woman who has already been chosen for him. People in Moroc do not marry for love. They marry for one reason and that is to procreate.

You need to protect yourself and go to the local authorities to get a restraining order against your husband. If you have a brother or other male relative, have him/them to have a nice long talk with your husband. Your husband is without question a sociopath and the best medicine for this type of personality is a good old fashioned butt-kickin'.

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