Isis- I did date him in person

Submitted by mesmerized (United States), Feb 4, 2009 at 15:28

I did not date him on internet and am still having trouble breaking it off- we did not meet on internet. we met in a dance club in person and have been dating in person and see each other often. I have met his friends and he has met mine. I do not know how to let go of him, if he was after marriage it does not add up as I am still only separated and he never asks me about when i am going to be divorced and does not pressure me about it. I am not interested in marriage and he does not seem to be either.

He pays for dinners and dates and does not imply anything- I just am suspicious because of the age difference and because he was interested so fast but he has been not given me any reason since we have been together to doubt him. It makes my head spin. I have a Moroccan female friend whom I have asked about it and she said the warning signs do not seem to be there. she says it is wise that I am cautious but that everyone is an individual. It could very well be that because of my Spanish heritage we just have a good connection as she and I do. I do not want to kid myself nor do I want to be fooled by him. Still checking in with this site and reading what you all say.

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