To Mesmerized

Submitted by Isis (Australia), Feb 8, 2009 at 18:24

To keep educating yourself and learning about his culture is the greatest weapon that you can have in protecting yourself.

Whilst I am mindful of your stiuation, please don't downgrade yourself as you are doing all the right things in considering all avenues. There are success stories with interacial relationships but as I have stated before that are not generally welcomed on this site.

I hope that you can reach a point that you are able to satisfy yourself , sooner rather than later that he is either genuine in his affections for you or that there is an ulterior motive in his actions. You don't need this time of indecision and putting your life on hold. Life's too short!

All the best.

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