there is too many facts to dispute

Submitted by love is blind (United States), Feb 9, 2009 at 15:01

Lisa I know you dont want someone to second guess or put down your relationship. I too have used the same words when defending my relationship here on this site. After many months, and even getting my husband here, I finally have been awakened. TO REALITY! And what a huge price to pay and too much time wasted to realize it.

I wish I would have found this site before marriage. It would have slapped me out of the dream world I was in. Just take in all the information you can before giving yourself completely. It will not be easy to get out of your marriage once you commit. There are alot of resources and too many women on here who have been in our shoes.

There is just too much B.S. with these men to refute the strong possibility that you are either going to get played, used or abused. It really is sad to see what kind of a reputation these men are earning and the reputation we are earning as being so naive and gullible. Just question everything, learn as much as you can but the real proof about the relationship you may enter is not going to be found in the Qu'ran. The Qu'ran is about truth, purity and fairness. Most of these men are anything but. I will chalk my let down up to Gulliver's Travels.....I wont be vacationing anytime soon.

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