He should work- not you...

Submitted by Margaret (Poland), Feb 15, 2009 at 20:53

He prays 5 times a day faithfully from the age of 8, is studying IT while I work. He helps me cook and clean and has the temperament of Mother Teresa.

If he is so religious he should work- not you...It is a duty of islamic man to provide for women- not only for wife- but even for sisters-if they are not married...

He is nice to you cause he doesnt have a choice- you are his provider...Many women had the same "luck"- and it ended the very same day the muslim husband get what he wanted- visa, citizenship, degree...so on...

Strict muslim would also demand that you wear headscarf or even full islamic cover- black robe, gloves, niqab... if he doesnt that means he doesnt treat the marriage seriously...

Probably he just needs you till the end of his studies..as a financial support plus a cook, cleaner- he has it for free...He helps cook&clean but mind he would have to it all alone if not for you...

Think about it, please...

M.

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