very bothersome.. WARNING

Submitted by mare (United States), Feb 16, 2009 at 20:36

To all readers.

Just when I thought I got on with my life, the Moroccan man I thought I got rid of is bothering me again. It seems like he has nothing to do in his life but sit at his computer invade my life.

I got my life back together after a year and a half of mental torment, playing games, using me to entice other men to give "me" money, all he was doing was using me, he made a site in my name on myspace, he used the pictures I sent him to entice these men, he made three minute clips of me on the webcam, and showed them to others who he was luring to my page, he was lying to me every day.

He told me that he will marry a woman from USA and when he gets here he will look me up and kill me.

I read a lot of stories on this site which helped me to grow strong, now I am in search of more support for I just got mentally attacked again from this man Hammadi Elkhatir. I am happy and content with my life and out of the blue this man called me on my home phone. I blocked his number and yet he calls here still, I had to call the phone company and ask to have my number changed and unpublished. I let this man talk long enough to me to say he is going to put a knife through his chest and send pictures of him to me on the internet, he also said he will have someone send his dead body to my front doorstep because I killed him.

I dont know how he got my number again. I told him to leave me alone and he just laughed at me. I clearly made the biggest mistake in my life by talking to this man. Any of you who are thinking and believeing all the words a man from Morocco tells you, you must think again. These men are capable of anything for he thinks that because he prays five times a day its ok to do wrong.

If any one can help me to any of the solutions to a situation like this please write me. Thank you and may all of you who think that these relationships are healthy for you and your family, think again, we have many men here in USA.. Just think you are the one who has to buy a ticket to go there, for what a months time of bliss, pay to get married, pay for the celebration, next you will have to help this man go to get paperwork changed over into arabic, another big cost, then help pay for living for the whole time youre there, then come home, to play mind games again, sit at the computer chatting and listening to all the lies again, I truly believe none of these men are truthful, then fly there again to do more paperwork, come back home again, and wait to see if the visa goes through, and when he gets called to the consulate then you would have to fly there again, the same process, just for a man, for what, because when they come here most cant adjust, they find another moroccan to live by and its just not what you expect your life to be, just for that one month of bliss, I thought of all this and its just not worth it. It just hurts the pocketbook, it hurts throughout this whole process.

No I just want to live my life in peace, I want to be left alone. So far I havent heard from this man for a week now, and I am feeling better again. I am so sorry I even gave it a chance. I need advice again, Thanks to you all for advice in the past.

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