To loves an eyption man---- Fast Marriage, Egypt

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), Feb 23, 2009 at 18:19

NO where in my posts did i say that i am 'ONLINE dating this man.

I never said you were. Don't try and pin things on me I did not say as you try and rationalize your way out of this.

Besides, it does not matter as this could still be a visa scam, and I don't like it because unlike most of the other posters on here, you have the singular advantage of seeing this man in person yet you still are not sure. If you were sure and "in love" as you would have me believe, you would not need me or anyone else on the internet to confirm it.

The fact that you don't have family to talk to about this: needing third party confirmation in a relationship is always a bad sign, especially in marriage. You should not be so involved with someone you cannot trust.

I do not consider a year long relationship a "fast marriage" and considering we are waiting for a bit more.

Really? We? Or just you? Did you have to twist his arm to get him to agree? And thtat is not even that relevant. Scammers will wait years to get what they want.

and your comment about why we cant date men in our own country....I have, I was married to an American man, and he cheated.

Sorry to hear that, and I can't say I'm surprised and I won't defend American men, but it has no bearing on this relationship with an Egyptian man other than the fact had he not cheated, you would not even be considering dating an Egyptian man. Keep this thought in mind as you defend your relationship.

Looks and age has nothing to do with why I am with this egyptian man.

I've heard that one before. But I'll accept this point simply because your reasons won't matter as long as he gets what he wants.

As i said, I blog on here because I do not have family to ask about this.

That's the problem; I don't know that, neither do you, and you don't know him as well as you would like or at the very least as well as you think.

As far as you offering comments about how carefully I read: perhaps you ought to take your own advice, or maybe you are just scared that I'll convince you this is not real?

You were the one who came on here with "questions" and I'm sorry if you don't like the answers. The truth is many of these scenarios end bitterly. Some if not all of the ones talked about on here today---let's see where they are three years later.

-Luigi

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