Thanks for your concern

Submitted by Leigh (United States), Mar 2, 2009 at 23:32

I have already come to the conclusion that he is scamming me and we will not be together. There is something I want to get out of him before I totally let go. Two other men he knew were turned away, so I kind of believe he will be also. If its a scam, I am sure they all will use the same answers to the questions.

I can ask what they talk about in arabic and he can tell me anything for all I know. Its not that I secretly want him to fail, I really don't care if he fails the interview. He has done some things for me and use them to make me feel guilty if I end everything now. Him failing the interview would make me feel that it was his fault and not mines when I let him go. My situation was not completely like the ones on here. I never gave him money. I think he just wants the visa.

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