To Luigi

Submitted by Lisa USA (United States), Mar 9, 2009 at 19:56

Luigi first of all YOU ARE ASSUMINg way too much!

My first impression of him at the airport was not Oh this man is Beautiful.....I have been with more attractive men right here in the USA. I am attracted to Mohammed because of the way he respects me and everyone around him. We are good together and I don't mean in the sack. I look at what is inside someone. I am not attracted to outer beauty! I don't eveb care that he is poorer than the US men.....It has nothing to do with him being different....I look at him like a MAN...a simple man!

Why is it wrong in your eyes he keeps in touch with family while in USA? Im sure Rosie also kept in touch daily as well with her family via the net, but it is wrong for him too?

You're assuming wayyyy to much, Lisa. Then again, that's a big reason why you are rushing head first into a marriage Again, Luigi...common sense will tell you when you are away from home you miss your life back home and Rosie has stated several times on this board she missed her family and home so no, I did not assume anything. All I said was if its ok for Rosie to communicate via internet to family members, her new husband has that right too without been ridiculed over it. Maybe I like to to treat others fairly and you have a one-sided opinion-YOURS!

Are we not suppose to help our neighbor and family in need?

Does this mean that you give to charity that you aren't romantically/sexually involved with?

why does everything have to be about sex and good looks with you? We are talking about Rosie and the women in agreeance with allowing the husband to send some money back home to help family if in need and both parties agree....I see you have missed me and you feel the need to argue so you want to turn everything into how you want to perceive things.

Some Muslim men marry prostitutes and then divorce them for the sake of good old sex

Not all Muslim men are religious as well Luigi, but i thought an Intelligent man as yourself would have known this. Some also claim to be religious too that are not faithful to the religion

Just like you have your ones here claiming to be Christian and may go to Church every Wed and Sunday but come saturday they are in the clubs partying and drinking....Does this make them a True Christian? Again, Luigi I said "the faithful and religious muslims" and you said muslims...not all muslims are into islam.....some do not even have a faith and I said "SOME"

You're right, Lisa. The perfect prey is a woman who thinks he is flawless. Makes his job all the easier.

YOUR WORDS LUIGI NOT MINE...I NEVER SAID HE WAS FLAWLESS! DON'T PUT WORDS IN MY MOUTH

All I ever said was he was a good man, has a good family, and they are all respectful in the community and city...and no i didn't get this info from the net....i saw it first hand and even found this out through different police and offices while i was there doing our paperwork on the last visit.

Furthermore Luigi, I am tired of you saying I don't care about these other women's feelings....I am sorry they were volunerable and trusting and found bad men that cheated and lied to them. They have a right to be angry, but they should not make postings on a public board and say ALL these men are like this....They can't speak for all men. They can esaily get their point across without making false statements and getting too much into peoples private lives by insinuating false statements when you are not God and know what lies ahead with any of these relationships. There are a few good ones and from time to time you have even posted this fact. So why is it fair you have the select few on here who have an agenda make these postings knowing there are women who come here and read these postings. Is it fair to put doubt in the good relatiionships minds and destroy what they may have by instilling a lot of doubt? There is simply no need of it. You are on the outside looking in from reading postings, you can't possibly know what we or others are feeling that have found the good ones and it is simply unfair to them.....Im not taking up for the bad ones! They deserve all these women dish out on them, but it is unfair to hurt innocent people! Don't you think? Also to put down their religion just because they are Islam and not Christian views.....'Freedom of Religion" Right?

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