response to fyldfolly

Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Mar 11, 2009 at 06:34

i really can see where you are all coming from : this is if i want a continuing relationship with this guy. i wont be able to go over to Egypt at the drop of a hat. I have booked for Greece in May so the next opportunity will be Aug or even December then i want to go to Aswan. I wont be letting him know this tho.

i may be under his spell, he may be grooming me, i have heard all the lines bewildered has stated, and more .

Iloved you from the first time i saw you at the pool. i only know of you two weeks but i love you, i love you from the heart, i meet many women at my hotel every day, but i dont care ,i love you not to have sex with you but your personality. you will have the best trip you ever had in your life. ha ha yes they do seem hilarious dont they. God what am i doing. .........

i dont really think that the men know any other way of chat up lines. English guys are no better you get do you want half a lager???where have you been all my life.?? so yes you do take the flattery and the charm and the thoughts of a magical holiday to heart. I would say im not very predictable tho, i am not available online i do not chat online, so in order to get a response from me he has to telephone me, or txt or the odd email - and i dont set a time to telephone him either. i rarely do telephone him . So he has a free reign and has no time pressure issue., so has to offer no excuses. Only the army one if so be it. Also, i have only just booked my tickets he wasnt to know what day or week i was going . it could have worked out differently. Then how would that juggle? A little risky, im not defending him just telling how it is.

i know all too well a man can txt you wherever he is and whoever hes with. only takes a minute he can be on the loo doing that. So if he was seeing another this week, to keep me sweet wouldnt he just send the odd txt. ?? i would be kidding myself yes....if i thought there was no ulterior motive. I am trying to make sure im not caught out if its money hes after...i will inform my bank to cap a limit on my spend whilst over in Egypt and only take a small amount with me. no jewellery, no fancy camera. The gifts i take will be for his family like chocolates, and typical english bits and bobs nothing expensive, but this is customary. The worrying factor is the sex issue. ...that does concern me but i will be surrounded by others. Its if im alone obvioulsy with this man. This visit may be a sweetner, i cannot know that, know one knows that. ..i will hold my hands up and say yes you told me so if that is the case ...i can admit to that. my experience my be a good one maybe not. i just want so much and i know you will all sigh a yawn.....................but i just wanted to have a little faith in him.

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