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Submitted by becreative (United Kingdom), Mar 12, 2009 at 14:42

i had to reply to your blog because i feel that western women are being wrongly abused and labeld as whores. This is a cultural issue of which i have not the expertise or knowledge of in the muslim sector. But , the western culture is criticised because of what??? exactly? Women being more independant warm affectionate , charming and loving ?and well off ? is that what attracts these men , that they can actually feel something for a change instead of being subjected to a life with a women they dont love, a virgin whome after the first night - or a baby later they may never have sex with again or pleasure come to that matter. is that why you are saying these things ---- or have you been on the receiving end of one of these men, husband whatever ? has he fell into the arms of the western lady and made you feel the rejected one. A man has the rights it seems : a women does not -the man can say i divorce you three times then you can ..s. off. basically then on to wifey no 2. and so on. plus all the orfi marriages on the agenda.

They do not respond well to critisism, well what man does. ??

The ladies on here are from all over the world, different ages different stories to tell, why they are stigmatised as being old ugly and fat whatever is beyond me but if you read the words of some of the blogs they come across as highly intelligent, warm, caring HUMAN beings . They probably have a lot to offer a man. Just because a man takes advantage of the genorosity of these women does not make them whores !!

im afraid im not a 50 year old virgin -.... i have two daughters. that would be a b....miracle, but society is changing - muslim students are wanting more freedom with their sexuality and the orfi paper and sex, between them is getting out of control. And why do you think the men turn gay???? because they cannot be in the company of a women , but they can be with another man . .. just shows what they may do for a bit of sexual gratification....

im sure you meant it as a warning - but please do not treat your fellow women as the perpetrators. It takes two at the end of the day. whatever the circumstances.

xx

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