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Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Mar 14, 2009 at 14:23

He's told you that he's lived with many women. This is a huge red flag !!! I strongly suspect he likes to play the field. Maybe he still has many women. How will you know ? Will you believe him when he says he's faithful and that lying is against his religion as my husband did, all the while chasing women on the internet and elsewhere, and leaving evidence of women in our home while i came back to do immigration ? Are you tough enough to endure the paranoia that will rule your life as you search constantly for his presence on dating websites and check his phone for messages daily ?

And how will you know if he's bringing home a disease from being with women ? Do you really want to take the chance of becoming infertile ? Do you think you'll be able to demand he use protection everytime ? Do you really want to go to the clinic for testing every month ? And if they test positive for HIV how will you explain this to any future man after the algerian dumps you ?

Is this the kind of life you want for yourself ? Is this what you feel you deserve ? Sounds like you are truly blinded by desperation. He's got you right where he wants you - a weak woman who'll trade her self-respect for temporary happiness.

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