to anna re meticulous planning

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), Mar 14, 2009 at 17:20

My English wasn't clear enough when i warned about even the divorce being planned in detail. I meant to say that the divorce was planned ( false witnesses, false evidence) even before the marriage took place !!! He then waited until the visa decision was given by the consulate. That should give you a clearer picture of how deceitful these men can be.

Read my posts (enter Yasemin in search feature above) and if you are foolish and desperate enough to proceed with this, just be careful - hide your documents and atm number and watch your food and drink like a hawk if he does get your atm number. He may try to drug you in order to use the card while you sleep. Also if you go there and he becomes violent, make a plan to leave secretly. These men are very violent if thwarted. The police won't help you - muslim culture regards domestic violence as a private matter.

A chill goes through me reading your posts - you don't seem to realise you're probably in danger. He sounds extremely abusive and manipulative. He's already blackmailing you using guilt and he hasn't even met you yet. A desperate man is not a safe man. Make sure you register your presence in his country at the embassy there. Let him know the embassy is expecting you to contact them daily to assure your safety ( even if untrue ) - it might save your life.

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