Kimberely, they know what they want

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), Mar 17, 2009 at 05:41

Hi Kimberely

so sorry to hear of your story and I'm sure you are feeling devastated right now. These men pull out all the stops to get what they want. I'm not saying he didn't love and want you because you were married for 6 years but now he has his citizenship things have changed? I don't think muslim men have any scrupels about the lies they tell and they think cheating is ok , allah will forgive!

I still think of my man every day and its hard to forget him after only 1 year so it;s going to be tough for you right now, get some family/friends support see your doctor if you have to. As Yasmine on here said there is life after these men, mine said children did not matter but again that was lies, just part of the plan he had to try and get me to marry him. Your man wants children now,? yes, now he has citizenship !!, he should not have married you if he knew he wanted children, they all want children, isn't it a requirement in Islam to fulfil this?

Is this marriage fraud after 6 years? I'm sure Luigi and some of the others will advise you, tell yourself you don't need a man like this in your life, it will be hard but as one door closes another opens.

wishing you all the best

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