to Isis and Lina: update

Submitted by lisa usa (United States), Apr 11, 2009 at 03:39

Hi Isis and Lina......i just wanted to update you......My trip was originally April 4th but we moved it to April 17th cause his dad had eye surgery and he wanted to allow the dad time to adjust and not have family in and out.....now, i have a Doctor appointment on the 13th (monday) with my 12 year old and a spine/orthopedic specialist. what he finds and decides if surgery will be performed will determine if my trip gets postponed further.

Mohammed wanted to make sure we took care of savanna first so "we" both would not have to worry about her while I am away and he said he didn't want savanna to feel he is more important than her (he is so sweet) so we will wait and see on Monday. We are ok to marry without re-doing paperwork as long as we do so before our authorization papers are void in June. Anyway, we are doing great and happy and he loves savanna my youngest cause she is the nicest to him and the most responsible of my three including the 23 year old,lol.

but we are both worried about her and her health is our utmost concern right now. She has something growing on her neck/spine a large fist size growth maybe a lipoma that may require surgery to remove and she has been having some unidentified pain and muscle spasms that knock her out of breath and makes her cry with the pain..(not sure if it is pressing on a nerve on the spine?)...we are hoping to end this concern on Monday evening..........we have been through a lot together and he is going to make a great step father.Mohammed has been tested as well,lol. I forgot he had once told me he had a facebook account and when i stumbled across it, i was upset to see a few women around the world added (none USA) and I jumped to conclusions without asking and I was jealous and e-mailed him a nasty e-mail and said to him a lot of hateful accusations and accused him like all Moroccans,lol....

i did a lot of accusing and he told me to look into my heart and i know the answers...he had mostly relatives listed with the same last names and his nieces i have met too but he told me I could contact all of the women and ask if he had ever talked to them (i actually had one blonde before he told me I could) and she was from UK and she had confirmed she had not talked to simo in about 3-4 months and he had told her about our marriage plans and told her he loved me and she had asked to see our pictures from my last trip...she had been a friend for 3 years he occassionally talked to and listened to her problems (she is in a relationship-always just a friend)...anyway since facebook caused us a slight problem he deleted everyone except family and now has our pictures on his site and on his profile picture too and created an album called FAMILYwith the girls pics and my son....Of course our album was titled the love of my life. Of course i have Myspace with men added too but I guess it was different in my eyes cause I knew i didn't talk to anyone and i assumed he must have......he was ok with deleting facebook if it was going to create problems but I learned too I should have talked with him first and got his explaination before i accused him of anything...Savanna said I was very mean to Simo and she defended him....anyway, say a prayer for my savanna and I will keep you posted. Take care..Lisa

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