Thank You Luigi, & Update

Submitted by Anonymous American (United States), Apr 11, 2009 at 19:08

I wanted to thank Luigi, Sherry, & all others who responded to my post about a year ago,, in May 2008, with some very great advice. Maybe all I needed was to have my feelings affirmed. Your feedback was very much helpful & appreciated, as was also reading everyone's posts. I still come occasionally to read the posts here.

About a week after my post, I discovered another account my "Egyptian true love" had, lol. One in which he told me was cancelled so he would not have to give me the password. I demanded he give me the password or that I'd never talk to him again. Once in the messenger account, I found someone he'd left me for before (although of course he'd never admit to leaving me for anyone since He could never love any other more than he loves me, ---:D ). She was a Saudi American almost 10 years younger than I am. He is 4 years younger than I am.

While talking to her, I discovered that he was still pursuing her for marriage. Promising her things , like... that he'd take her to california with him and put the business he & I had been working on (me doing 99% of the work) in HER NAME & HER DAUGHTERS NAME so they'd always be taken care of. Something he said to me also, he wanted to buy me a home so I'd always be taken care of (sure it wouldve been in his name & not really mine.. ) She was very honest, and informative, telling me how he told her he'd never marry a NON ARAB, and repeating some of his and my sensitive information that he shared with her.

I discovered this messenger account trying to find his account on OOVOO.com. None of the accounts he had, or that I had access to worked. So, I tried some old ones(that he wasnt supposed to have anymore) and they worked. Therefore, I knew he kept those accounts. He was the one insisting we share passwords, and that he loved me and only me and didnt even think of any other.. and was so sorry for all his "_h i t" he did in the past and that this was a new beginning. 5 months later I discovered all of it was lies & that he pushed me into giving him all my passwords and starting over with him... . although he had no intentions of giving me all his passwords or being honest with me, or being only with me. He has always been very jealous and controlling of me, so I believed he really cared for me. NOT, he just didnt want anyone else, getting to use me for papers instead of him!

Just before discovering the account, I was supposed to transfer a little over 6000. into his bank account which was his money from one of our business transactions. Also, I had about 5000. + worth of goods here with me which technically belonged to him. While her and I talked, he kicked me out of his account, & told her that " she hacked my account" .. he was obviously still trying to keep her. When I confronted him, and said that he was only using me for business and that if she accepted him then he wouldve thrown me away like something disposable,, he declared he didnt want any of the money and I could burn the 'goods" that he didnt want any of it.

I never gave him his money or his goods and I'll never. I am considering it all compensation for all the pain and suffering he's put me through for many years. I guess he thought that by this acting as if he didnt care about the money..., then he'd still have a chance at marrying me and getting his papers, and that he'd eventually have his goods and money anyways.

I've come the conclusion that, I was his plan B, and that he always strung me along in case nothing else worked out. Ive learned my lesson.. . the biggest lesson I learned was TO TRUST MY INSTINCTS. Since the very beginning I had my doubts but just didnt want to believe them, because all the sweet stuff he was saying... made me feel better than facing the truth.

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