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Submitted by annonymous american (United States), May 17, 2009 at 16:09

Are you certain that he is a citizen of France? Many arabs live in France who don't have citizenship.

What I would like to say to you, is that... it is possible that he's a very good actor. I wish you would consider this. I was involved online with someone for over 7 years. It all began in 2001. We met in NY two times.

I learned AFTER the fact that I wasn't the only one online he talked to. Seems he was fishing to get the best catch(young as possible, w the best financial situation), and fishing in several holes to be sure he did get a catch at all.
For a lot of years he said he loved me but couldnt marry me yet, but said all the right things to keep me into him. He seemed extremely jealous and treated me as if he felt I was his. After being introduced to his friends we all kept in touch and he couldnt bare them knowing me, talking to me.. any of it. I'd never been treated so "special" or needed by any man before. After last year, and after he proposed to a saudi american from 2006-2008 and she didnt accept, then suddenly he was "ready for marriage" with me. He denies that it has nothing to do with her, and that he ever loved her and that im the only one he's ever loved and that she was just a game. I feel like he was keeping me as last resort, plan B,... and his friends tell me his way with me isn't love, not even in egyptian/ arab/ muslim culutre.

Just be careful. Things arent always as they appear. Yelling, crying, begging, ... . it all can be an act.

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