What do you think???

Submitted by Pauline (United Kingdom), May 19, 2009 at 04:26

Hello all!!!

Well i wouldnt be here if i was doubtful would i? ha ha, Again i met an egyptian man online 3 months ago. I wasnt looking to meet anyone, it just happened, over time ive come to really like him, and i enjoy our coversations. i have read most posts on here, and a lot is familiar. He is very much in love with me, so he says?

Basically,he is working in Abu Dhabi, he has been there for nearly 2 years, before that he was in usa,he said his brothers friend got him his visa? he didnt like the usa, so he left when his visa ran out? Now he is in abu, he has a good job with free accomodation, laundry, food, and good salery.

Ok my problem is i am 41 and he is 30, i am in the uk, and dont want marriage or converting to muslim, i have told him this, and he says thats ok? i also said why dont you get yourself a young muslim woman, so you can marry and have kids? He says he loves me, and doesnt want kids?? ha ha ok i know what you are thinking!!

I have ended this relationship many times already, because i dont know why a young man wants a older woman, i am not stupid and very cautious, he says he wants to come to uk , he has money and a flat in egypt, and he says he will pay for visa and everything else??? So i dont think he wants me for money, and i dont have any anyway. Also my health is not great, i have ms. he still says he wants to be with me! He told me that the work visa from dubai costs £4000 to get a work visa where they find him work before he comes here??? I have not heard of this before?? He says he has never married, and has only ever had one relationship before. Why would a young man with a good job and plenty money, want to come to uk to be with me????

Plz reply

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