Walk away, Pauline

Submitted by Pandora (United States), May 19, 2009 at 22:07

So, he didn't the USA, eh? I wonder if he wore out his welcome here. My advice is get out and keep him out. If you've seen any of my posts, you know that I was recently dating a 27 y/o Turkish guy and was also surprised that he would find a 42 y/o single divorced mom the thing to be with.

Things just don't add up with this guy. How could he only have had ONE relationship before he was 30? I know your health is not that great, but you definitely deserve an equal partner, not someone you have to wonder about.
How is he going to pay for everything? I really doubt that. Online relationships I don't get involved in at all because you don't know who is behind the keyboard. he could be being coached, in fact I bet he has been.

I know it feels like you are on the top of the world when a younger guy shows interest, but make sure it is someone you have honestly met and had a history with before.

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