letting go

Submitted by bewildered (United Kingdom), May 26, 2009 at 02:41

Hi Pauline

I'm glad you have decided to stop talking to him because like you said its not going anywhere and you will only be more hurt as time goes on. But they don't let go easily, don't be suprised if he tries to contact you for weeks/months/sometimes over a year it has been known. mine tried to constantly contact me after i said we were through and yes he won me over because i thought his persistance mean't he cared. But when they give up trying or find someone else they are very cruel and cold ,complete the opposite. Thats when you know it was all a scam, because if they really had feelings for you they would not do this.\they are desperate and their acting skills are excellent! Be strong and don't give in, i'm still hurting now and I have'nt seen him in 9 months, for me it gets harder instead of easier as i miss him so but knew i had to leave him.

all the best xx

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