Changing relationship status on profiles, adding lots of women, racism and Islam, Muslim man marriage

Submitted by Straight_Talk_Luigi (United States), May 26, 2009 at 12:39

Hi there Amelia! Thank you for sharing!

It sounds like you've had quite a whirlwind of a experience!

I wanted to add a few things:

First of all, Amelia, don't fall for this "you're a racist if you don't do what I want" nonsense. I've heard of women dating a guy of a different race just to prove to everyone else how tolerant they are or to prove they are not a racist.

It's a complete joke.

For starters, Islam is not a race, no matter much the politically-correct panderers here in the West want it to be. It's also worth noting that only 20% of Muslims world-wide are Arabs.

Needless to say, Amelia, you are not a racist.

Also, whenever someone changes their relationship status to accomodate you or to tell they aren't interested anymore, it's time to move on. I had a couple of women do that to me over the years on facebook, both were women I had met in person. One was a friend of a sibling, the other I had gone to college with but we had never encountered each other until the internet.

Having a lot of friends who are just women from all those countries----definately a red flag. And then just deleting them---you bet that was for your benefit! You got him on the defensive now!

Well done on recognizing this for what it is, Amelia!

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