To bewildered re missing him

Submitted by yasemin (Canada), May 27, 2009 at 10:58

I was missing my husband such that it felt like i had lost one half of me. I was lost, stunned. But friends kept saying to look at what i was missing - was it him or the mirage ? I had to admit that there was no way anyone as cold and calculating as him, the man who had pretended through every moment, every kiss, every smile, was worth missing.

So, every time he enters your thoughts remember that he was faking every smile and then you'll find the longing for him disappearing. I doubt it ever goes away completely but at least it's greatly diminished and allows one to carry on and live life.

Crazy dream - handsome dark desert prince sweeping us away into the desert....ya right :) Just another "never meant to be" fantasy.

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